DRB black males love to play mind games with and hurt women, and have no qualms about it. Making you feel off center and unstable is their goal. The less confident you feel, the more likely you are to give him what he wants.
Inspired by the 1972 piece Children Learn What They Live by Dorothy Law Nolte, blogger Deborrah Cooper pens a guide for African American parents on how to raise black children with dignity, pride and high self esteem.
A 225 lb father was arrested and charged with child abuse for beating his two adolescent daughters with a cable cord. The fact that so many black men and women were applauding him for “good parenting” shows a sickness in the minds of black people that needs immediate treatment.
DBR black men are controlling, violent and manipulative. It’s tough to leave a relationship if they aren’t ready to let you go. Cut the b.s. off at the pass. As soon as you see even ONE of these red flags, be out like Forrest Gump!
Survey for black women who have through their own efforts successfully removed themselves and their children from the crime-ridden, drug and vermine infested, abusive environments referred to as BLACKISTAN.
Some of you are confused about how to recognize one of these tit sucking infant-men who are still hanging onto Momma’s skirt tail. You’ve seen them in your own family and on-line… the guys who whine about how black women need to support nurture care for love listen to and guide them. All they do is come at you with their hand out and their neediness front and center. Big ass babies!
My boyfriend’s 62 year old mother is very dependent upon him for everything. Him being at her beck and call is negatively affecting our relationship. He is talking about marriage and I love him, but I’m not sure this situation will work for me long-term. Help!
Though most DBR black men consider themselves to be “good black men” their laziness, escapist behaviors, endless whining about the past, and low self esteem are HARDLY exciting. Not even a little bit.
My boyfriend’s 62 year old mother is very dependent upon him for everything. Him being at her beck and call is negatively affecting our relationship. He is talking about marriage and I love him, but I’m not sure this situation will work for me long-term. Help!
Young man angry because women he is attracted to don’t feel the same way about him gets valuable lessons and a spank on the butt from Ms. HeartBeat.
Is it true that men love women that demand respect, stand up to them and don’t take their crap? Absolutely! Ms HeartBeat breaks it down.
DBR men will pop out with some of the lamest lines and the most inappropriate requests, guaranteed to elicit a heart felt “NO!” from any woman with even an ounce of self-esteem. The fact that women had to even answer these crazy questions demonstrates that the ignorance level of DBR black men is sky high.
DRB black males love to play mind games with and hurt women, and have no qualms about it. Making you feel off center and unstable is their goal. The less confident you feel, the more likely you are to give him what he wants.
Inspired by the 1972 piece Children Learn What They Live by Dorothy Law Nolte, blogger Deborrah Cooper pens a guide for African American parents on how to raise black children with dignity, pride and high self esteem.
Humorous original “Dr. Seuss style” poem on the realities of the male mind which explains why men are no great mystery because they are all the same. By advice columnist and author Deborrah Cooper.
Fine tune your dating strategy and stop dating the wrong men! What every single woman tired of short-term relationships with losers needs to know. You need to change what you seek in a man and how you look for it. This book shows you how to quickly recognize and eliminate time wasting jokers.
The award winning dating guide “Sucka Free Love! How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, Deceitful, Dastardly, Dysfunction and Deranged” is now an Ebook. Get your giggle on and get smarter about men, women and relationships at the same time. Special discount gets you 10% off until April 3rd.
How should a black woman and Japanese man handle the complex issues of mixed race children?
White man in love with black women is confused about the status of their relationship and doesn’t seem to understand that she is not going to give him a title until he lets her know where his head and heart are.
Reader questions his disappointment in a female friend that lost her virginity to a Black guy instead of a White one.
This index of our series “40 Days of Rain on DBR (Damaged Beyond Repair) Black Men” provides easy access to our discussion on the behavior and attitudes of black men and how those attitudes and behaviors are damaging to black women, black children and the black community as a whole.
Survey for black women who have through their own efforts successfully removed themselves and their children from the crime-ridden, drug and vermine infested, abusive environments referred to as BLACKISTAN.
Black Americans tend to be very religious and the Christian right is hammering away at Obama for taking a stand on gay marriage rights. This is why I believe his strategy to be inclusive of a marginalized sub-group of Americans was the smartest move any President has ever made.
Is it really possible to fall in love with someone you’ve never actually met except online?
Single for three years, a reader believes happiness can only come if she has a relationship.
Do people date anymore with the intention of building something solid, or is it all about the hook up?
The children of single mothers are statistically at a greater risk of sexual abuse than are children with their father in the home. Tips for single moms on protecting their children from predators.
Many women dull their light and pretend to be incompetent boobs so a man in their life will feel smart and intelligent. That is NOT the move to make ladies.
A loving song sings a wedding day song to his beloved mother. This is the kind of love only mothers and sons have. Congrats to the new Mrs. Watson.
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