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Mom Charges Dad $1 a Minute to Visit His Sons
A young mother charges her baby daddy $1 a minute to spend time with his twin boys after he lost his job. This chick is no joke and doesn’t care that he cries because he misses his children, she wants her damn money!
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PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT #1562 – CHEERLEADING MEN: REALISTS vs STEPFORD WIVES
Men need a reality check and women are here to give it to them. Never support a man’s dream when its unrealistic, unattainable dreams and he is clearly setting himself up for failure.
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Overworked and Stressed Out From Codependent Family
Three of my brothers now have come back to live in the house but don’t help with anything! I have gotten into many arguments with them and even my mom over this. She says I’m not right and don’t know the meaning of family. All I do is work to support a house and grown men that don’t contribute. How do I get out of this situation?
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I Give and Give but Get Nothing in Return
I feel like I don’t want to give up on him because he seems to be coming around. But lately, I just feel stupid because I give and give but pretty much get nothing in return. Should I hang in there or move on??
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Day 18 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Controlling Women via Birth Control Sabotage
Sabotage of birth control is very real. From hiding BC pills to poking holes in condoms and diaphragms, men are forcing young women to become pregnant against their will. Pregnancy and childbirth should always be the WOMAN’S CHOICE, never that of a confused and desperate man whose top goal in life is to do all he can to ruin your daughter’s future.
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The 10 Things That Disqualify a Man for Love
Just because a woman says she “can’t find a man” it doesn’t mean that she isn’t dating or having sex regularly. What she means is that she hasn’t yet found THE man, the one that she wants to be with forever, the one that she can fully trust, the one whose name she can take with pride, the one she would set up a joint checking account with.
Satisfying Relationships, Attainable or Beyond Reach?
You will be attracted in some respect to what you don’t really want, that is a given. You must learn to handle your feelings of attraction in a way that leads you to fulfilling your long-term goals. Remember, poisoned honey may taste sweet going down but it will still kill you!
So Many People Are Warning Me About My Boyfriend…Should I Listen to Them?
I met a wonderful man and we began dating about six months ago. Towards the beginning of our relationship, his closest friend, brother, daughter, and random women we would meet at parties warn me about him with comments such as, “You’re going to get screwed over” and “You shouldn’t date my Dad because he has a bad personality” and “Watch out for this guy!”
Day 19 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Pastor Tricks and Lies
Don’t allow yourself to get crossed up in those types of mind games. If your man is headed for a fall, step back and let him hit the ground. He’s a grown man, not a baby. You don’t need to rush in there and try to make it all better for him like his Mommy. He’ll get up on his own or reach out to other men to help him up, and he’ll be stronger and smarter for the hard knots he has on his big head and the lessons he’s learned.
40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men – Index of Posts
This index of our series “40 Days of Rain on DBR (Damaged Beyond Repair) Black Men” provides easy access to our discussion on the behavior and attitudes of black men and how those attitudes and behaviors are damaging to black women, black children and the black community as a whole.
10 Types of Women Single Guys Ignore and Why You Should Date Them
Single men often complain about not being able to find a woman to date. I believe that’s because guys all want the same woman, leaving thousands of great women that would make you very happy sitting alone at home. Take a look at some of these undiscovered gems that are probably right under your nose.
Sentence of 7-10 Years…Should She Wait for Him?
Her boyfriend of 18 months has been locked up for almost a year of their relationship with seven years to go. How much longer should she wait for him, or should she throw in the towel now?
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT #1531 – Lying Men Need to Shut Their Pie Holes
If any guy can all say that he has NEVER, NOT ONE TIME done any of the 15 items on this list, he can talk about women making better choices. Other than that, shut up because you are the problem. You are the reason black women have broken hearts, hurt feelings and baggage.
Day 17 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Asking Women Stupid Ass Questions
DBR men will pop out with some of the lamest lines and the most inappropriate requests, guaranteed to elicit a heart felt “NO!” from any woman with even an ounce of self-esteem. The fact that women had to even answer these crazy questions demonstrates that the ignorance level of DBR black men is sky high.
Public Service Announcement #1511 – Protecting Children
The children of single mothers are statistically at a greater risk of sexual abuse than are children with their father in the home. Tips for single moms on protecting their children from predators.
Public Service Announcement #1512
Many women dull their light and pretend to be incompetent boobs so a man in their life will feel smart and intelligent. That is NOT the move to make ladies.
Day 16 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: One Trick and Lie After Another
DRB black males love to play mind games with and hurt women, and have no qualms about it. Making you feel off center and unstable is their goal. The less confident you feel, the more likely you are to give him what he wants.
Black Children Learn What They See
Inspired by the 1972 piece Children Learn What They Live by Dorothy Law Nolte, blogger Deborrah Cooper pens a guide for African American parents on how to raise black children with dignity, pride and high self esteem.
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