As a woman, there are some things that you may do without even thinking about them, which may seem very insignificant. Unfortunately, such apparently small things may make the love of your man vanish. Let us take a look at some of the things you should be aware of so that you do not fall victim to a broken relationship.
While you may think that you must do something very major in order for your relationship to go sour, the truth is that there are some apparently small things that have major consequences. As a woman, there are some things that you may do without even thinking about them, which may seem very insignificant.
Unfortunately, such apparently small things may make the love of your man vanish. Let us take a look at some of the things you should be aware of so that you do not fall victim to a broken relationship.
1. Being Fake
You try to be something or someone you are not, the man will really hate you for it when he discovers the truth. And the truth eventually shows through. Do not fake interests you do not really have in a bid to attract a man. One of the things that we usually think that we must lie about is our age. But even this may ruin your relationship.
2. Being Dependent
While men would like us to want them, they do not take kindly to the women who seem unable to survive without them. He will simply avoid you as he looks for some breathing space.
3. Poor Listening Skills
In general, women often talk more than men. However, you may get so carried away with your own talking that you do not pay attention to him. Let him tell you about his side as well if you want him to keep on loving you.
4. Poor Spending Habits
Once you have gotten closer together, the man may share his money with you. When he notices that you spend money carelessly, he will lose interest in you. You should both make a budget, and ensure that you stick to it.
5. Thinking Only of Yourself
You should bear in mind that a relationship involves two people. When you constantly think of just your own needs, the man’s love will wane. Both of you should take part in planning and carrying out plans.
6. Playing with His Emotions
In case you do not really feel anything special for a man, do not mislead him and draw out his emotions.
7. Outrunning Him
You should take things one step at a time. Do not try to rush him into commitments he is not yet ready for. If you seem to be nagging or pressuring him, he will lose interest in the relationship and you.
8. Being Too Rigid
When you do not change your mind on some things no matter what, he will change his mind about you instead. And you should not blow things out of proportion.
9. Being Overly-Possessive
You should understand that the man may have other female friends. When you get unreasonably jealous towards them, the man won’t praise you for it.
10. Demanding Constant Attention
When you want the man to think of you at all times, how do you expect him to concentrate even on his work?
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