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Relationship and dating advice columnist of Ask HeartBeat! Has enjoyed dishing out insightful yet hilariously funny advice, tersely worded reality checks and "let me slap you upside the head" wake up calls to men and women around the globe since 1991.

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Join Me for the First “Debinar” on Better Understanding Yourself

Join Me for the First “Debinar” on Better Understanding Yourself

In a Google Webinar poll, I asked women to share the top three concerns or problem areas they had in their lives and in their relationships. My goal was to hear directly from site visitors and YouTube subscribers the topics they’d most want me to address in a planned webinar series. Hands down the #1 […]

Posted in: Dating Advice
By December 6, 2016 0 Comments Read More →

Engaged for Three Years – How Much Longer Should I Wait?

Dear Ms. HeartBeat: My fiancée and I have been dating for four years and engaged for three this month. I have made repeated attempts at getting the ball rolling to actually walk down the aisle, or even to move in together, but it’s not happening! I know he loves me, but he seems hesitant when […]

What do I do when my girl asks “how much do you love me?”
By November 26, 2016 0 Comments Read More →

What do I do when my girl asks “how much do you love me?”

Dear Ms. HeartBeat: How does a man answer the question: “How much do you love me?” Is there a chart somewhere with the quantifiable data that we can refer to? Is this just a trick question? I mean, if we’ve already said “I love you” to each other, why do we need to have this […]

Why is he ignoring my calls and texts and playing with my head?
By August 21, 2016 0 Comments Read More →

Why is he ignoring my calls and texts and playing with my head?

Dear Ms. HeartBeat: Me and this guy have been friends for a while, but now we’re getting more intimate. I initiated the relationship by the way. Now he texts me like, “hey let’s get together tonight!” Naturally I respond “yeah sure, what time?” to which he never ever responds and I am left hanging. This has […]

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Self-employed husband sleeps day awhile while wife works cooks and cleans
By August 19, 2016 0 Comments Read More →

Self-employed husband sleeps day awhile while wife works cooks and cleans

Dear Ms. HeartBeat: My husband and I got married 2-1/2 months ago, but we’ve been together for five years. He was laid off over a year ago and went into business for himself as a commercial mortgage broker. The first part of the year was really hard with some of the deals lingering and not closing, […]

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Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops
By August 13, 2016 0 Comments Read More →

Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops

In this multi-part series, veteran advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper (popularly known as “Ms HeartBeat”), takes her single female followers by the hand and leads them through the minefield of the sinister, manipulative, and controlling behaviors of men. From flat out lying to using prisoner of war type mind control techniques, any single […]

Why Won’t He Admit That We’re in a Relationship?

Why Won’t He Admit That We’re in a Relationship?

Dating for almost a year, he calls 10x a day and spends all his free time with one woman, but still refuses to acknowledge to her, his family, his friends and even himself that he is in a relationship and in love.

Posted in: Dating Advice
Why say you’re going to do something if you don’t follow through?

Why say you’re going to do something if you don’t follow through?

When a man gets defensive and tries to place blame on his woman about something HE failed to do, that is a major character flaw that should make one reexamine the relationship. Only a man-child refuses to be responsible or accountable for their behavior and tries to make every poor decision and misstep he took a woman’s fault.

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My Boyfriend is Bisexual on the Downlow!

My Boyfriend is Bisexual on the Downlow!

A young woman finds out that her boyfriend of two years is living a down low lifestyle and secretly having intimate relations with men. Now she isn’t sure how to handle it or what to do.

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Why Do Women Love Men Who Don’t Love Them Back?

Why Do Women Love Men Who Don’t Love Them Back?

A reader observes that the majority of advice letters from women fall into the category of loving men who don’t love them back. Why do the women hang onto these sad, unfulfilling relationships so long?

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What’s Up With Men Giving Women THEIR Phone Number?
By November 20, 2014 0 Comments Read More →

What’s Up With Men Giving Women THEIR Phone Number?

There are several reasons why men give women their number instead of asking for hers like a man should. What is up with these weak wimpy Beta males and their cowardly approach to getting to know a woman?

Why Do Guys Keep Telling Me What Type They Are Attracted To?
By February 28, 2014 0 Comments Read More →

Why Do Guys Keep Telling Me What Type They Are Attracted To?

Why do guys date her then tell her what kind of woman they REALLY like – a type that is not her? Ms. HeartBeat has some great information about these types of knuckleheads to share.

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