How to Know He Really Loves You

[ 0 ] December 12, 2011 | Deborrah Cooper

I was asked: “How do you know if a man truly loves you?”This is an age old question that woman like to ask and know the answer to. Men like to know the answer too, but this question is addressed to the women.

1. He will give you his last even when he is in need himself;

2. He will work 2 or 3 jobs to provide security for you and your children;

3. He will lay down his life for you without asking;

4. He will volunteer to provide support for you without you asking;

5.He will be proud to bring you around his mother and family;

6. He will defend your honor against anyone while in your presence or not;

7. He will show and tell you how much he loves you and what you mean to him

8. He will listen to you and always take your concerns seriously

9. He will make adjustments in his life in a positive way to become the man you believe him to be

10. He will try to give you the world

11. He will put you first

12. The bulk of his time will be spent with you when he is not at work

13. He will buy you things that he knows you like when you least expect it

14. He will cook for you and help around the house and with the children to ease your load

Most men are not verbal, so we speak through our actions. It’s through his actions, not his words, that you will be able to know how he truly feels. Watch out for men that say they love you, but do nothing to back those words up with actionable behaviors.

A man that loves a woman will try his best to give her the world and everything in it. The list above is a bullet proof gauge and standard to go by to know if a man really loves you.

Deborrah Cooper

The visionary creator of AskHeartBeat.Com, the first website to focus exclusively on Black male/female romantic relationships. In addition to providing startling and humorous relationship advice to thousands, Deborrah is a blogger, internet radio talk show host and prolific writer. She has penned hundreds of dating and relationship articles and is the author of the hilarious 2007 guide to modern dating "Sucka Free Love!"