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By July 21, 2011

Like someone that doesn’t know I’m alive

Question:
I love a certain boy very much. I am just crazy for him! But he doesn’t seem to be very interested at me. What shall I do to make him fall in love with me?

I am very pretty with good character, but he can’t seem to see that! He is handsome and many girls are attracted to him besides me. Many guys used to like me when I had long hair and no braces. I don’t want to think my physical appearance is what made guys like me. This guy and I are friendly but I wouldn’t say we are friends. I even got up the nerve to tell him that I liked him but he didn’t seem to believe me – he thought that I was only joking around!

Answer:
You cannot make a man fall in love with you. I doubt that he believed your statement was a joke. I suspect that it was just more comfortable for him to dodge the issue. By acting like he didn’t believe you, it gave him an excuse to not have to tell you directly that he didn’t feel the same way back. It would be smart for you to learn right now that its not a good idea to get into the habit of chasing men.  Especially when they have made it clear they are not interested; it is a waste of time and you always feel bad in the end.

As for the appearance issue, men ALWAYS look at a woman’s physical appearance first. After they like what they see on the outside, they might look deeper to see if you have a personality, values, morals and a brain to go along with the body, face and hair! Men like pretty women, feminine women. You can still be those things with braces and without long hair. Wear a little lipstick, tasteful makeup, earrings and bracelets to enhance your natural beauty and girly it up a little.

Get OUT of those baggy, ugly clothes that young ladies like to wear so much and make sure you look like a young lady.  As far as you being a nice, sweet girl goes, that doesn’t mean everything because it depends on what kind of guy you are going after. A roughneck knucklehead might not like a nice sweet type – perhaps feeling that he is out of your league or that you two don’t have much in common. In other words, he might feel that you are “too nice” and associating with him would corrupt you. Believe it or not, many young men have a conscience.

You may not be terribly happy right now because he didn’t respond the way you wanted him to and he doesn’t do anything to return your affections. But that is better than getting your feelings REALLY involved and finding out was only with you out of pity or laziness or the convenience you offer when he dumps you for someone HE likes.

Just be yourself – always be yourself. And soon you will meet a guy that you like and who enthusiastically likes you back. Trust me, you’ll be much happier.

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