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    We welcome submissions from you, our readers and guests, on a wide variety of topics.  Social issues, dating, family, romance, dating, divorce/breakups - we welcome your perspectives and insight.  This section features a collection of submissions received over the past 11 years.  Send in your submission here.


     

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    Item Title Author Hits
    7 Easy Steps to Getting a Girl's Phone Number Derrik Anderson 2760
    What Types of Women do Men Avoid? Matt 9164
    Why Did He Stop Calling? Chris Roberts 3116
    Abusive Men: 10 Signs of An Abusive Man Stephany W Alexander 4432
    Why Men Sabotage Their Relationships Helene Rothschild 3356
    Great Date Ideas for Baby Boomers Ruth Purple 1191
    Getting Played is All PLAYED OUT! Priscilla Branch 1114
    What Makes Us Fall in Love? Gianni Truvianni 2799
    Independent Black Women Need Love Too! Allan Tan 1783
    Relationship Advice for Men - What Women Wish You Knew Joshua Uebergang 1942
    WTF Do Women REALLY Want? Rod Cortez 1606
    Dating Tips for Women by a Woman Suzanne Williams 937
    Getting Love, Being Loving Margaret Paul, Ph.D. 1894
    Corny Pick Up Lines - Why You Shouldn't Use Them Mark J. Taylor 2231
    How to Know a Guy is Flirting With You! Michael Lee 2216
    Four Ways an Abuser Controls Your Relationship Jeanne King, Ph.D. 1569
    Single Women - Help a Guy Out! Online Dating Guy 1700
    Dating and The Confident Woman Dan McDonley 1973
    10 Things That Can Make Your Man Stop Loving You! Chris Roberts 4654
    Making Up With Your Ex - 3 Critical First Steps! Jeff Gadley 1995
    What Is a "Perfect" Relationship? Dr. Art Martin 2994
    Loving Unavailable Men: A Dangerous Disorder Among Women Francis K. Githinji 2625
    Shocking Reasons Men Leave Relationships Brenda Shoshanna 2922
    Love is an Adjective, Not a Verb! Linda Dominque Grosvenor 2331
    Who Is Responsible For This Baby? Priscilla Branch 2489
    Dating Success - Understand More About What YOU Want Irene Houston 1436
    G Spot Positions to Hit The G Spot Nathan Patmor 13516
    Five Ways to Know If Your Mate is Cheating Dani Taylor 2880
    Going Into a Relationship For The Wrong Reason Aaron Adams 2140
    Advice Young Women Need Before Dating Older Men Nicholl McGuire 43766
    Dating Again After Divorce Rodrigo Rehn 4697
    Why Men Pull Away from Relationships Chris Roberts 7435
    Is There a Relationship Between Housework and Sex? Francis Githinji 3149
    Stop Calling Me Diseased - The Politics of Black Women and AIDS Pearl Jr. 3489
    Connecting With Your Man Aaron Adams 2613
    What Do Black Men Want From Black Women? R. Jeneen Jones 6791
    Compromise Today...Miserable Tomorrow! Carolyn Hall 3441
    Black Man's Blind Dating Rules Romare 14992
    Thinking of Tying The Knot? 5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together Michael Webb 4345
    You Want the Truth? You Can't HANDLE The Truth! Victor D'Amico 2061
    Lay Down With Dogs John K. Exum 1638
    Meeting and Attracting Older Women Johan Krost 3836
    Single Over Thirty: What Men Think John D. Husband 2045
    Lie - Of Course I Don't Lie! Jean Shaw 1608
    Overcome Your Nervousness Around Women John Alexander 3957
    How Nice Guys Can Develop The Player Edge That Women Love Rom Wills 6127
    Single Over Thirty: Habits & Traits John D. Husband 2005
    Single? Have a Love Affair - With Yourself! T. Bivens 4942
    Living Together Before Marriage Mariam G. Crownover 4534
    50 Rules for Single Women to Live By Scorpio80 11676
     
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    • Articles by Linda Dominique Grosvenor  ( 2 items )

      Linda Dominique Grosvenor has been a contributing author to AskHeartBeat.Com for more than seven years.

      Linda Dominique Grosvenor has made her foray into non-fiction with the inspirational smash hit The Plural Thing: Spiritually Preparing for Your Soul Mate. Her expertise on dating and relationship issues has been used in articles for publications such as Modern Bride, Jolie, Jewel, Honey and MORE Magazine.

      A tireless advocate Grosvenor is also the founder of the Love Better Camp. Log on and visit her official website at www.ThePluralThing.com.

       


       

       

    • Articles by Mark Shokair, MS  ( 1 item )
      AskHeartBeat.Com welcomes Mark Shokair, M.S.
       
      Mark is Psy.D candidate and will be contributing regularly to AskHeartBeat on male/female relationships from the male perspective. If you have suggestions for articles you'd like to see written, please submit them to Mark's Corner.

       

    • Articles by Gregory L. Towns  ( 2 items )
      Gregory L. Towns. Mr. Towns is a 50 something year old African American freelance writer currently living in the Washington, D.C. area after a move from San Francisco. His writing focuses on the relationship and dating scene for men over 40 (and Black men in particular).

      The parent of three adult children, Mr. Towns gives the Brothers a practical look at the problems he has witnessed or experienced, along with ideas on how to remedy them and prevent them from occurring in their own romances. Mr. Towns provides a welcome (and humorous!) examination of Black men’s motivations and perspectives concerning relationships.

    • Articles by Deborrah Cooper  ( 34 items )

      Deborrah Cooper (writing under the pen name Ms. HeartBeat) has provided witty, insightful, no nonsense advice and information on creating more rewarding romantic relationships both on and offline for more than 15 years.

      When AskHeartBeat.Com launched in December 1997, Ms. Cooper was quoted as saying "I firmly believe that many of the ills suffered by the Black community are the direct result of destructive relationships and making bad choices with respect to partners. These problems can be solved only when we acquire the skills necessary to select partners that are truly right for us. We must also learn to resolve conflicts in mutually beneficial, growth-oriented ways. The goal for the Ask HeartBeat!™ site is to help my brothers and sisters find solutions, and make the love they seek a reality."

      If you have suggestions for an topic that you would like to see addressed as an article on AskHeartBeat.Com, please submit it via the Contact Us link above.

       

    • Articles by Lelia Jackson  ( 2 items )

      Insight and analysis on male and female behaviors, love, dating, sex and romance from the mind of Lelia O. Jackson. Lelia was one of the first authors to join the AskHeartBeat.Com family and regularly provides fascinating articles for your enjoyment. 

       


       

       

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