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Black Man's Blind Dating Rules |
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Written by Romare
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 Black man's blind date rules were inspired by viewing the television show "Blind Date," in which numerous men play themselves in order to gain the attention and affection of women. As the saying goes..."you have only one chance at making a first impression," and it’s sad to say many men end up making complete fools of themselves in one way or another. Everything from stripping down naked, singing, dancing, putting on make-up, groping, begging, and lewd sexual overtures leave many men in compromising positions, much to their date's amusement (or disgust).
Yo Rome Writes...
The Black Man’s Blind Dating Rules
©2001. 2008 Romare
Brothers:
The biggest mistake men make is not providing enough intrigue, mystery, and challenge to keep a woman's interest level high. Also, men do not pay attention to vital signs that let them know which direction the date is going. The most important sign is her initial reaction upon first laying eyes on you:
If she flashes a disappointed look when you first meet you have your work cut out because you may have failed the physical attraction test...so show her a great time and do not invade her space nor pressure her for her attention and affection. You can still spark intrigue, mystery, and challenge through your personality and other qualities. But never lash out if she seems to be withdrawn from the date. Just be a gentleman and try to end the date early.
If you pass the physical attraction test...do not become an obnoxious jerk playing with her feelings! Leave the heartbreak and games to them. One thing about women, if they are physically attracted to you they have a hard time masking their emotions. They become giddy, talkative, apologetic, and sometimes insecure about this behavior because they can't help it. Just be cool and let her work that out...do not feel sorry for her, since she has probably hurt many men's feelings prior to you.
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