| Black Man's Blind Dating Rules |
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| Written by Romare | ||||||||
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Try to avoid excessive or unnecessary compliments. Rome's secret...women do not like compliments from men who they are not attracted to. Give her a compliment when it is appropriate (like a dress worn to dinner) , but do not use compliments to win her over. Excessive complimenting will only turn her off. So, avoid flattery since it is not sincere. Gauge her interest level in you first, temper compliments to fit that interest, and make sure they are well earned.
Win at recreational games and sports. If you take your date to play pool, arcade games, bowling, or sports make sure you initially beat her thoroughly and let her win only once before you leave. Women are turned on by winners not losers, and even more turned on by chivalrous winners. So, let her win...after you let her know who her "daddy" is. Do not initiate physical contact. Do not grope her with attempts to hold her hand, putting your arm around her shoulders, sitting too close or trying to touch her sexually. Let these gestures evolve naturally once she has given you clear indication that she would like physical contact. Remember, women do not like to be touched by men they are not attracted to or comfortable with, so slow your roll. Hints she would like contact:
I only recommend that you hold her hand or put your arm around her but do not caress her. Caressing shows affection and may even be interpreted as sexual. You do not want to be open to all that too soon. Also, when there is a break in the action let her grab your hand first or get close for a hug...do not initiate. She is still testing to see if she has you open, so she can have you eventually eating out of her hand.
Always leave her wanting more...and remain a challenge.
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