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    valentines day love dating tips relationship adviceI know many of you are mumbling to yourselves "well its about damn time she put up a new column!" Considering the fact that I host two radio shows per week now, and write for my blog and The Examiner, get over it! Valentine's Day is coming up, and I expect I'll get lots of letters complaining about what some man did wrong, or didn't do enough of or well enough from disgruntled women.  You can see them in the next column!  In this edition we hear from a man that thinks women should be more Spock-like (like men), a man angry that his girlfriend won't get an abortion, a silly Caucasian female that wants everyone to be like her, an woman furious that her ex-husband took their son to the home of the hooka that broke up their marriage, and a young woman who gets two thumbs up for revenge cheating with her lying boyfriend's best friend.  The drama never quits on AskHeartBeat.Com!

    Dear Ms. HeartBeat:
    My brother has been going out with his girlfriend for about a year. She's 25 and he's 24...she's a good person and I'm happy that my brother is with her, but she is too freaking annoying! She acts like a little girl in public, she baby talks A LOT! She has this annoying habit of trying to impersonate Eric Cartman from south park, she pouts her lips and crosses her arms, she only takes literally 3 bites out of her food and throws it away.

    When I'm talking to my brother she will interrupt with something irritating like kissing my brother and hugging him, just basically ignoring the fact that I was talking to him. She laughs really loud over something so stupid that really isn't so funny. Every time my bf and I double date with them, we end up getting extremely annoyed, so we try to keep our distance.

    My brother is starting to notice that I decline his invitations to hang out with them, and when I do, he starts to notice that I become highly irritated! My mom told me to just ignore her, but I'm at the point where I need to say something. My parents even go to their room to avoid her when she comes over because she's too annoying and loud! People are starting to notice her behavior any opinions. I really don't want my brother to get upset if I decide to tell him something!

    Ms. HeartBeat Responds:
    You don't control whether or not your brother gets upset at YOUR TRUTH. Because when you are talking about your life, your time, your thoughts, your feelings, that is your truth and you should never be ashamed or embarrassed to speak it.

    Personally, if she did something like that to me (interrupt), I would have said "Back up chick, I am talking to my brother and I don't want you interrupting. You aren't two and don't need to have everyone's attention ALL the time! Go sit down somewhere and wait your turn."

    And when she was loud I would say "you are too damn loud. people down the next block don't need to hear your conversation or laughter. Why do you feel the need to make everyone notice you, even when you do something obnoxious?"

    And when she acted like Eric Cartman I would say "a 25 year old woman needs to act like an adult, not a cartoon character."

    And when she throws food away I would tell her "my parents paid a lot of money for that food. If you aren't going to eat it, please don't come to the house and nibble on food, wasting their money. It's disrespectful and rude."

    And when she asked why I don't want to be around them I would say "because you annoy the hell out of me and I don't see what my brother sees in you at all."

    But that's just me.


    Dear Ms. HeartBeat:
    Now just imagine how much better and easier dating would be if you kept that same level of clarity in your head UNTIL the other person had proven, beyond doubt, that they're a quality person deserving your love and emotional commitment.

    It's always smart to keep the emotions at bay, until you truly know someone and they've proven themselves to you.

    That's why women so easily and frequently end up hurt. They're excited over a new dating relationship, think he's "the one" and they let all their emotions take control before they really even know a new guy.

    Keep your heads in reality and not fantasy, and life rolls a whole lot smoother.

    Ms. HeartBeat Responds:
    Typical man. Women are not men, get it? We will never be like you, thank God. Someone has to FEEL things not just THINK things. Though some women do allow their emotions to lead them too quickly along the path to commitment, men over think everything and allow their minds to lead them away from the richness that could come to their lives by allowing themselves to risk loving someone.

    No matter what men say, LOVE is a feeling, not a thought. And if you don't allow yourself to FEEL love, you will never have it. So I think in this case, dating would be so much better and easier if men got out of their heads and into their hearts.


    Dear Ms. HeartBeat:
    Can you please explain to me what is going through the minds of women that say "My BOYFRIEND and I are trying to get pregnant?" Why aren't these people getting married before being an innocent child into this world?stupid women make stupid choices teen pregnancy unwed pregnancy single mother

    Ms. HeartBeat Responds:
    Because they are DUMB AS HELL, that's why! Women these days don't have the intelligence of a donut, I swear. They move in with fools, have sex with them, give them babies, ruin their figures for some fool "boyfriend", forego their dreams because of what he wants or to have some curtain climbing brats, take abuse, get cheated on, get abandoned, and sign up for the same b.s. and drama from the next knucklehead all over again.

    I wrote an article entitled Why Women Should Stop Having Children which outlines the headaches, turmoil, financial losses and heartbreak women suffer from having children. It is my contention that all females should stop having children, period. Most men are not mentally or emotionally (nor financially) prepared for the responsibilities and selflessness required to parent a child.

    I just don't understand why women are so stupid these days, having children all over the place with these fools. It seems that a massive outbreak of Desperate Woman Disease is responsible, but who really knows.


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