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    Interracial Dating: Why Black Women Date Interracially Print E-mail
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    Written by Lelia O. Jackson   
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    black women in interracial relationships with white men
    This is not an attack on my sistah’s. I love you and I am a firm believer of the sisterhood. This is just a view of what is really happening. It may seem be a little ridiculous. The truth of the matter is that all of the above reasons for why some black women date interracially are really true. People actually gave these reasons. I find that very disquieting.

    Why Black Women Choose to Date Interracially
    The Troubling Reasons

    ©2002, 2010 by Lelia O. Jackson
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    It was six a.m. and rush hour in New York City.

    The crowded subway was packed like a can of sardines. As the train neared the next station, a man got up from his seat and stood by the door. A little old lady approached the empty seat. A well-dressed brother came from what seemed like out of nowhere, sat in that seat and opened his Wall Street Journal. He did not look up at the old woman who was now standing up in front of him.

    This sister and I were sitting facing this atrocity. We looked at each other and she said very angrily “He would have given that woman the seat had he been white” I shook my head and replied “That’s a damn shame” I am sad to say it really was.

    However, I have seen white men do the same thing. The woman’s statement was false.

    I got up and gave the old woman my seat. What could that man have been thinking?

    In campaign 2000 we were told to stay out of the bushes. One year later it’s stay out of the jungle. Fellas come out of the jungle because some sistah’s are peeking in and a few have succumbed to the fever. Ladies I don’t have a problem with interracial dating. As a true romantic I do believe love is where it finds you. Color is not an issue. I do have a problem with some of the reasons, especially the following:



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