| Infidelity - How to Tell if Your Man is Cheating |
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| Written by Deborrah Cooper | ||||||
Page 1 of 4 I often receive letters from heartbroken women, sick with worry that their boyfriends or husbands are cheating on them. The cheating itself seems to hurt them deeply, as it indicates a violation of the marital vows the wife holds dear, but I think its the lying which accompanies the infidelity that is the most destructive element in the whole horrible situation.
How to Tell if Your Man is Cheating, and What to Do About It!
©2002, 2008 Deborrah Cooper
Most men begin to mistreat their girlfriends or wives in little ways, talk to them badly, disrespect them or begin to accuse them of cheating (out of guilt I suppose). Some men become overtly disrespectful and stay out all night, stay gone for days at a time, or become verbally or physically abusive.
Confused women who wonder how love could have gone so wrong sometimes become depressed. Some end up in clinics on antidepressants because they don't know how to express their anger in healthy ways without feeling they are risking losing their man even more.
Some women don't want to throw away years of marriage or take actions which they feel would make them responsible for the destruction of their family and the ruination of their children's lives. So they choose to stay and resignedly accept their husband's cheating.
Other women are so devastated by the hurt and so angry that they end the marriage on the spot. Often though, they are sorry later that they didn't try to work it out utilizing marital counseling. |
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I often receive letters from heartbroken women, sick with worry that their boyfriends or husbands are cheating on them. The cheating itself seems to hurt them deeply, as it indicates a violation of the marital vows the wife holds dear, but I think its the lying which accompanies the infidelity that is the most destructive element in the whole horrible situation.