How Can You Tell?

[MsHeartBeat]

That your girlfriend or boyfriend is about to sky up and leave your behind?  Are there specific clues you would advise others to look for?

[devineone]

In my own experience, the guy became distant, stopped returning phone calls, his attitude changed and he became detached and cold and not interested in hanging out with me and doing the things we used to like to do together.  He wouldn't pick up the phone when I'd call and I left messages and he wouldn't return my calls in a timely manner. 
I think with guys, that is a sign they are interested in someone else because they move their focus from you to the new person in their life.  The woman can tell and if she's smart (and unfortunately for me at that time about 9 years ago I didn't wise up soon enough), she will talk to him and ask what is going on.  If he can't tell her, then she'll tell him that she doesn't like the treatment she's receiving from him and to leave her alone while he's tripping. 

[Informed Investor]

I think communication is the key. Before the fall the first thing to go is consistent communication. Another big thing would be affection. If I'm not feeling you anymore I'm not going to be hugging and kissing all up on you every time I see you.

[Ginger]

If the relationship becomes kind of cold. The conversations are pointless and we are just not finding anything to do with each other and then it becomes to the point like, well why am I even being bothered with you?

Pretty much everything that Devineone said.

[Bambi eyes]

They suddenly become very unavailable.  If someone wants to be with you and is still invested in the relationship, they will MAKE time for you.

[MzSheel]

I agree with what everyone has said... there is an emotional detachment that you feel, that you see, etc.  Sex is either slowed, stopped or no longer has that spark.  It would seem like s/he's just going through the motions (the routine of the relationship), but is emotionally disconnected from the process.

[bigmomma]

I can answer about how ONE guy was becoming distant. My first REAL boyfriend.." Shawn..from Kansas.."
I was so clueless about guys back in the days. But, he was all of sudden making crap with me when I asked him anything. He would all of sudden say that I am asking "20 question" He would just get upset with me I was not sure "WHY" I mean it was not like him.." Then I would try to talk with him and he would NOT talk to me..." We still went out.." Dated So, I was so confused.." Plus, his bimbo little cousins was giving me CLUES.." Why could'nt the little B#tch just TELL me? But, in a way she was.." But, could not disrespect her kin..you know..? Dang , I was stupid back then.
Then he would call me less and less.." He finally broke up with me over the damn Phone..."
 
That was the LAST time a DANG guy ever was going to PLAY " me"...
I took control.." From then on..." Now, I am happy and I  SHARE my control with hubby.