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« on: April 18, 2008, 09:23:36 PM » |
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There..I've said it! I'm tired of practicing political correctness and not plainly stating that obvious fact. But enough is enough, I've had far too many circular arguments on here with males who not only make disingenuous argument, but are also seemingly afflicted with a case of perpetually paddling up DENIAL river.
My reluctant conclusion as to the INNATELY inferior nature of males is based on a simple analysis of which gender tend to have drives, desires, instincts, or whatever ..that are most compatible with facilitating and promoting health, well being, peace, and progress (evolution) for our SPECIES.
Obviously that gender is NOT male! If you think about it, there is pretty much NO great contemporary problem facing human societies as a whole that didn't come about mainly due to some drive in males, especially their SEX drive...which seem to be the drive in them that has EVOLVED the SLOWEST, making it their most inferior quality.
Greatest problems facing societies and humanity as a while:
1. Over population.....main cause....male sexual instinct to "pollinate"(successfully or unsuccessfully) as much as possible(preferably MULTIPLE 'flowers').
2. Disharmony in male/female relationships....main cause...male aggression, infidelity, lack of commitment, lack of respect, insensitivity, etc.
3. Children w/o any/enough paternal involvement...main cause...males being INNATELY less nurturing, and thus have a higher tendency to abandon their offsprings, just like their animal counterparts in the wild.
4. Crimes of almost all kinds ...main cause...innate aggressiveness and predatory instincts in males.
5. Wars/Competition among groups...main cause...see #1...if males weren't so inclined to 'spread their seed' so far and wide...we wouldn't have so many people competing for and depletion the earth's limited resources.
All of those things are clearly INCOMPATIBLE with progress and the continued evolution of human life on this earth. Whatever force initially created human beings, designated FEMALES to be the conduit for the creation of LIFE, as well as the instincts to be INNATELY inclined to be nurturers, so it makes perfect sense that whatever females in general tend to desire from males, is very likely to be that which is BEST SUITED for the betterment of our entire species..obviously!
BTW, I do recognize that there is a small %age of males who exhibit behaviors/attitudes which indicate that they are somewhat evolved enough to have desires and instincts that are in sync with(not 100%) females...when it comes to raising families in a healthy, peaceful, and nurturing environment.
[This is a repost of a thread created April 11, 2001 pulled from the AskHeartBeat.Com Archives!]
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« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2008, 06:11:05 PM » |
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Greatest problems facing societies and humanity as a while: 1. Over population.....main cause....male sexual instinct to "pollinate"(successfully or unsuccessfully) as much as possible(preferably MULTIPLE 'flowers'). For every man who is over populating some women has her legs gapped open and not using birthcontrol letting him do his thing and exposing herself to STD's, it does take two. 2. Disharmony in male/female relationships....main cause...male aggression, infidelity, lack of commitment, lack of respect, insensitivity, etc. Women don't have to put up with the shyt that men put them through. If they don't like it, they can leave his butt alone. If women want respect, then they have to hold themselves to a higher standard and if a man can't step up to her level he gotz to go. A lot of times men do what they do because women "allow" them to do it. Also are women raising their sons to become respectful partners to women?[/[/b]quote] 3. Children w/o any/enough paternal involvement...main cause...males being INNATELY less nurturing, and thus have a higher tendency to abandon their offsprings, just like their animal counterparts in the wild. I ride the trains all of the time and I see so many mothers who are smacking their children, how are they raising them? Yes we do need more males taking the steps to be parents instead of just dropping the seeds, but lack of good parenting skills is the culprit of a lot of kids growing up crippled emotionally. Then they are unleashed into the world. Whether one parent or two, parental skills is sorely lacking. I'm thankful each day I had a Bigmama to help raise me because my parents "both of them didn't know what in the heck they were doing. 4. Crimes of almost all kinds ...main cause...innate aggressiveness and predatory instincts in males. Again, all of this can be traced back to lack of parenting. I see these mothers (because the fathers are no where in site, so I agree with that), but I see these mothers cursing and smacking their kids, not parenting them properly., not getting involved in their education, not taking time with their children. They have the kids, but then drop the ball. Unless there is some intervention, there is no telling how these kids will grow up. 5. Wars/Competition among groups...main cause...see #1...if males weren't so inclined to 'spread their seed' so far and wide...we wouldn't have so many people competing for and depletion the earth's limited resources. True, and if women were willing to take responsibility for their bodies and not allow the men to spread their seeds then that would eliminate a lot as well. However in some instances, like Darfar where soldiers just rape women to subjegate them, women have no choice. Here in America, most times women have a choice. I agree a lot of women are raped when they are children by fathers, uncles, even brothers, cousins. That again stems back to when that man was small, what kind of nurturing did he get from his mother? The mother set's the tone for how a man will relate to adult women later in life. Too many saplings are growing up bent and twisted because the parents are not doing their jobs. Regardless one parent or two parents, pyschologists say that consistent love and nurturing is key. All too often kids are growing up defective. They are emotionally deprived, have abandonment issues, emotionally inhibited. Yes I agree men have problems and contribute a lot, but we can't blame the ills of the world all on men alone. Women play a role as well. The fact that women bear the children places them in a much more responsible role, that is just the way it is. Of all the animals on the planet, people have the highest form of intelligence, yet we mess up when it comes to caring and nurturing our offspring so that they can grow up healthy emotionally, mentally, spiritually (and I don't mean going to church religion here either), and phsyically.
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« Reply #2 on: April 20, 2008, 07:04:50 AM » |
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LOL! I remember this! I wonder if those that truly feel this way have yet to find happiness in a relationship with ANY man... 
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« Reply #3 on: April 20, 2008, 03:12:54 PM » |
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Girl! Didn't this cause a riot on the boards between her and Mr. Sincere, Travolt and Crown? lololol If there were such a thing as "virtual" knives, they would have been throwing them at each other!!!
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« Reply #4 on: April 20, 2008, 06:36:08 PM » |
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5 compelling arguments... not to male bash, but perhaps modern men should pay more attention to the consequences of sexual freedom and more to responsibility and control.
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« Reply #5 on: April 21, 2008, 07:42:26 AM » |
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5 compelling arguments... not to male bash, but perhaps modern men should pay more attention to the consequences of sexual freedom and more to responsibility and control. Are you fuckin serious? BAWAHAHAHAHA!! DP is raving feminist lunatic... C'mon Susa.. you're smarter than that.. Plus, you're actually a woman who likes dy.. I mean men... LOL 1. Over population.....main cause....male sexual instinct to "pollinate"(successfully or unsuccessfully) as much as possible(preferably MULTIPLE 'flowers'). Men are having babies by themselves? Women bare no responsibility in that? Women don't have a drive to reproduce & be mothers? No maternal instinct huh?  2. Disharmony in male/female relationships....main cause...male aggression, infidelity, lack of commitment, lack of respect, insensitivity, etc. BAWAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Never a woman's fault when a relationship fails? Never female infidelity, lack of commitment, lack of respect, insensitivity.... OR JUST PLAIN LACK OF OBJECTIVITY?? 3. Children w/o any/enough paternal involvement...main cause...males being INNATELY less nurturing, and thus have a higher tendency to abandon their offsprings, just like their animal counterparts in the wild. How about both a man & woman COLLECTIVELY make a decision to lay down & have sex. They're usually not married & often times not using contraception. However, when the baby comes that's all a man's fault? 4. Crimes of almost all kinds ...main cause...innate aggressiveness and predatory instincts in males. Men commit WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY more crimes but actually female crime in on the RISE... 5. Wars/Competition among groups...main cause...see #1...if males weren't so inclined to 'spread their seed' so far and wide...we wouldn't have so many people competing for and depletion the earth's limited resources. Uh,... have we ever had any female heads of state, monarchs, etc? Did they go to war to colonize & expand empires when they were in power? Yes??... Cot dayum, Y'all ever heard of Elizabeth I? How about Queen Victoria? They're 2 f the main reasons the "Sun never set on the British Empire" & the British pound STILL kickin everyone ass to this dayJesus Christ - Objectivity lost.. LOL! I remember this! I wonder if those that truly feel this way have yet to find happiness in a relationship with ANY man...  HAHAHAHAHAHA!! YOU SAID IT!! NOT ME!!! - HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!! On a serious note, can you imagine women like this giving advice to other women about men & relationships?  COT DAYUM, no wonder you got some many unhappy mafuckas.. 
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« Reply #6 on: April 21, 2008, 12:00:09 PM » |
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5 compelling arguments... not to male bash, but perhaps modern men should pay more attention to the consequences of sexual freedom and more to responsibility and control. Um...not to nitpick, but wasn't it WOMEN who fought for sexual freedom during the feminist movement and the sexual revolution of the 60's? And as for the topic at hand, women can be just as INFERIOR as men per the stipulations set forth by the original poster.. Case in point: http://listverse.com/crime/top-10-most-evil-women
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« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2008, 09:34:04 AM » |
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I wonder what seven year itch prompted the need to go digging up threads from 2001...perhaps because the points expressed are still an unfortunate fact. All the resident misogynists and their Captain Save a Nigga female drones should take joy in the fact that I have neither the time nor inclination to waste posting on sites that have little to offer in terms of rational intellectual discussion....which requires at least a minimal level of comprehension skills. Seven years later, and still mostly responses not really worth reading, muchless responding to. Throwing up a few desperate tangents and exceptions does not invalidate a pervasive rule, nor address the topic. The one point I will address is the contention that women SHARE the responsibility for afflicting the planet by spawning so many offsprings that were NOT wanted by the sperm dropper who sired them. I agree! Which is why I have long advocated for women to not have SOLE decision on whether to carry a pregnancy to term. If it takes TWO to create a child, it should require TWO to decide to have it, and thus TWO be held responsible for raising it. Shame on men for standing up more for THEIR rights in the procreation game...but that would require them to CARE enough first. " I wonder if those that truly feel this way have yet to find happiness in a relationship with ANY man... " If this is the part where I'm supposed to huff and puff and/or care enough to offer testimony ....dream on.  But thanks for caring! As much as long time posters have learned about others on here over the years, I suppose if I was so inclined, I too could wonder about folks' happiness and relationship and such.
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« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2008, 09:07:29 AM » |
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Translation: I'm still a raving feminist lunatic that only sees fault with men while making the claim that women have no agency & thus shouldn't be held responsible for any of their choices & subsequent actions. You mad? - 
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« Reply #9 on: June 25, 2008, 12:51:51 PM » |
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I wonder if those that truly feel this way have yet to find happiness in a relationship with ANY man... " If this is the part where I'm supposed to huff and puff and/or care enough to offer testimony ....dream on.  But thanks for caring! As much as long time posters have learned about others on here over the years, I suppose if I was so inclined, I too could wonder about folks' happiness and relationship and such. Dahlin, I have nothing against you nor was that directed at you personally. Believe it or not, YOU are not the ONLY female that I know (on and off the boards) that hold the general opinion about the availability of quality men and whether or not they even desire to involve themselves in attracting such an illusive specimen). The statement was really supposed to be a general musing about if someone really feels negatively in their hearts about the opposite gender (male OR female), then will s/he ever be able to see beyond their perceptions to accept and see the good in the individual. Will s/he ever find happiness and be not just satisfied, but happy in a relationship. And as much as you'd like to make this all about you... it wasn't... and still isn't. Because you authored this does not make you (in my mind) the only person to whom comments can be made. Seriously, DP... we don't need to revisit this road. I wish you nothing but well. I've been too blessed and too happy to wish ill on anyone else or even sarcastically to do so... it's a new day. (Did it ever occur to you that MsHB resurfaced this (and other) old threads because she (and the group) MISSES your contribution??)
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