Not quite there yet in age, but I can speak from the experience of dating someone, who wasn't ugly but I wasn't physically attracted to him. It just didn't work for me. I hung in there for nearly 11 months though trying to get past the lack of physical attraction. Turns out we weren't sexually compatible either. In the end, I'd rather be celibate than to be with someone I'm not sexually compatible with or phsyically attracted to. Nope can't do that anymore. (Cringes).
I also tried to make it work with a man who was everything you described in your topic thread. He was homely but he had the nicest dark deep set eyes and long curling eyelashes. (I can always find a feature I like). We were friends first and he was a lot older than me and sort of saw me as a little sister. I was at the point (having gotten out of a relationship), where I figured an older man would be great, already settled and not into player games. My mom and brothers thought it would be a great idea especially after they met him. We had known each other for years.
I remember sitting on this guy's couch watching a movie on his nice huge plasma tv in his nice home. I leaned back to try to cuddle, and he put his arms around me and....nothing. I remember holding my breath and cringing, wanting to get physical and at the same time not really wanting it to happen. It was way awkward for both of us. I was never physically attracted to him and he couldn't get past seeing me as a kid sister.
(His words). We never made it to the intimacy stage. There was just no chemistry there on either side. He said he always found me attractive but too young for him. I was a bit insulted as I thought I was mature, and a heck of a lot more mature than the women he hung out with. I think it was more of a matter of taste. He liked the big BB women, and well, that's not exactly me.
I would have to say at this point in my life, no. Maybe later in life, who knows, I doubt it though. After all people get on your nerves and if you find them ugly and they're getting on your nerve, you may just nut up on them.
I can see myself sitting up looking at them while they're slumbering thinking Got Dayum!! WTF was I thinking.
Everybody is going to get older and nobody is going to look like they did in their 20's so I guess it doesn't matter, but if someone is what you'd call "ugly now" and they're getting older and uglier on top of that, well dayum that might be a mess to look at daily. (Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so I guess in the end, it's up to individual tastes, one person's ugly is another person's beauty.
