Read and Recognize the Signs - It's Over!

[MsHeartBeat]

What behaviors, statements or signs would you say represent that an individual (male or female) has lost interest in his or her partner/relationship?  What things would you point out to a dear friend or family member that would communicate they need to brace themselves because the smash and crash end of their relationship is right around the corner!?

[Bambi eyes]

One thing I'd point out to them is that their significant other is never around anymore.  They aren't making themselves available to you like they did when you first got together.  I usually compare what it was like in the beginning to what it's like in the present to get a clearer picture of how things are winding down.

[Kimora]

When they stop calling as much......

When they stop making themselves available

When you talk to them on the phone and the conversations are very general and not about the two of you.

When they look at you different..........

The bottom line is one can tell when the other is pulling his hand out the lions mouth slowly...

[tigerlilly]

Vague references to being "busy".  If he/she is really into you they will make the time.

Saying things like "see you soon".

Not being excited or about plans for a future date or event.  Responding with "if you want to", like it's an obligation.