That article was really funny, Ms Heartbeat, but you also made a good point when you pointed out that women don't use the same kind of "linear" thinking men do when they select a mate..What most of the whiny men are really saying is that they want the sex life of the alpha male but they don't want to put in the work to have that kind of life..They want the women to do all the work, not realizing that the reason the alpha male gets so much play is because he's not waiting on some woman to approach him..That's the female's role--to wait to be approached by potential
male suitors..A man's role is that he is supposed to do the approaching..Too amny modern men act like women should be approaching them..
Too many men just don't get it..Dating is like fishing--you have to use the right kind of bait to get the fish you're after..Why worry about what some of the fish want? Put yourself in positions to get the fish that your bait will attract..When you do that, you'll find that you'll be catching not just the fish you want, you'll be catching some you have to throw back..
Women may want the alpha male, but they can't all get him, you know..He can't handle all the women that want him
anyway--there will be women that need you, Mr Nice Guy..Now you have to have some swagger about yourself..Don't let some woman say to you that you're her second choice and that if she was able, she would rather be with so and so Alpha dude..Hell naw..You might not be first choice but never, ever, accept second class treatment..As a man you can and should approach more women than you can ever hope to satisfy(Did I just type that?
) because dating in the modern world is a numbers game..To be sucessful you have to have the numbers in your favor..
Yeah, I know that some of you cats hate the dating game and the possible rejection that comes with it..My advice is to get over it and develop a thick skin..One woman that turns you down is proof that there are twenty women out there with better taste is what a wise man told me once..As a man it's your job to find those women..You have to be willing to put in some work too, you know..Your game should be tight--even if you look like some movie star and women throw themselves at you..
What some dudes don't realize is that for every woman that wants a thug, they are just as many women that want a good stable dependable man..BUT...They want that man to be a man, if you know what I mean..
But sadly, men of character do seem to be in short supply nowadays, so some women have decided that "half a man is better than no man"..I can't say I blame them..Everyone needs love and companionship in this life and if you sit around waiting for Prince Charming or his sister Pricess Charming to show up you might be waiting a long time..
