When He Won't Take "NO!" For An Answer

Most women’s lives are spent in desperate pursuit of approval and love from, and relationships with men. Women anxiously ask themselves am I slim enough, pretty enough, are my hair and nails done well enough, am I freaky enough, am I pure enough? Many females are terrified about the possibility of becoming an Old Maid, though none of us has ever seen such a person and our only point of reference is a card game.

Parents, in their unaware ignorance, often encourage these self-esteem killing games by subtly pushing their daughters to believe females are defined as women only when part of a couple. In their minds the ultimate achievement for their daughter is not acquiring the title of CEO or Dr., but the title "Mrs."

Thus, as girls mature and change and begin to look more like adult women, the freedoms we enjoyed as children — running, getting dirty, climbing, jumping and hitting back are discouraged. Now we have to be pretty because that is what men like. We have to have a certain body size, because that is what men like. We’re told by those that claim to love us to "be nice" as we are brainwashed into believing it more important to please others than it is to please ourselves.

When we start to participate in the dating ritual, we’re warned to censure what we say to men because "you might hurt their feelings." Girls are trained to behave in a demure, subservient fashion around males due to the fact that "men need to feel needed and respected." Young women are asked with increasing frequency by the unenlightened: "so, do you have a boyfriend yet?" as if that makes her a better person or provides entre into a secret society.

A woman afraid of being abandoned or of not having a man like everyone expects her to has been set up. She will remain in a constant state of anxiety about losing the relationship she has, or stress incessantly about never finding one at all.

Females are both subtly and overtly trained to never say "No!" to men, due to the fear that he will leave her or (horror of horrors), she will end up SINGLE!

Women are socialized to be afraid of saying the word "NO!" to men.

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