I can answer about how ONE guy was becoming distant. My first REAL boyfriend.." Shawn..from Kansas.."
I was so clueless about guys back in the days. But, he was all of sudden making crap with me when I asked him anything. He would all of sudden say that I am asking "20 question" He would just get upset with me I was not sure "WHY" I mean it was not like him.." Then I would try to talk with him and he would NOT talk to me..."
We still went out.." Dated So, I was so confused.." Plus, his bimbo little cousins was giving me CLUES.." Why could'nt the little B#tch just TELL me? But, in a way she was.." But, could not disrespect her kin..you know..? Dang , I was stupid back then.
Then he would call me less and less.." He finally broke up with me over the damn Phone..."
That was the LAST time a DANG guy ever was going to PLAY " me"...
I took control.." From then on..." Now, I am happy and I SHARE my control with hubby.