quote author=Legacy link=topic=2361.msg27312#msg27312 date=1212169239
? - If you didn't really want the relationship why were you really angry & hurt? Hmmmm......
Because Legacy, I have feelings and he had feelings and when the end of a relationship occurs normal people will feel normal hurt loss and anger. It's what happens when a loss occurs. Regardless of the reasons behind the loss, grief occurs when something ends with someone you've come to care about. Just because I made the decision to end it, didn't mean that I'm a robot and I'm so cold and emotionally detached that I didn't hurt. We both were angry sad and hurt for a time. What kind of logic are you trying to use here? Oh I know Legacy logic
I don't regret my decision. I would have regretted it more if I had gone along with someone that I didn't really love and someone who didn't want me to be "me". Someone who wanted me to give up what was important to me to make him happy. Please note, that I've exhaled from that a long time ago. I'm very happy with that decision. That was such a chauvinistic remark to make by implying that my happiness was lost because I let a "husband" slip through my fingers." Let me tell you, my happiness begins and ends with me, it doesn't depend on a "husband.". I wouldn't put that responsibility on anyone, nor would I want someone else making me responsible for their happiness.
This has nothing to do with Michelle Obama, why are you even bringing that up over in this post?
This is you making all kinds of rants trying to make a point and getting off the subject.
You're just trying to divert the attention from the fact that you refused to answer any of my pointed questions about your personal life. You asked, I told you. If the question was rhetorical why didn't you say? Why won't you answer about your life and show by example? You're always spouting your opinions, but you fail to use an example in how you conduct your own personal life to support what you say. That makes what you say less creditable.
Oh ok.. makes sense now. That's why you were over there co-signing Bambi in the post about Michelle Obama. Your independence cost you a husband so you wanted Michelle to do the same thing.
Whatever man, you're just full of it. Take a laxative and relieve yourself of your BShttp://www.fartgreetings.com/wav/poot.wav
HAHAHAHA!! NOPE! Michelle got her a man & she keepin him! She ain't dumb like some of the chicas I know. Maybe one day y'all will figure shit out tho.
I'm too smart to marry a petit homme just because it was what he wanted and not what I wanted at that stage in my life. In fact any manolito who thinks the way you've just demonstrated from this silly quote is pretty dumb and emotionally immature, certainly not mature enough to be ready for marriage. Whatever you say Leg, you got it. You're the expert here, I mean, you've shared so much about how you run your own personal life and all. I surely must defer to your expert opinion. I should have been smarter and snatched up that man and I would be so much better off as a woman, because women can't be anything without a man. Doesn't matter if that wasn't what was making me happy at that time, as long as it was what that man wanted.
And, I didn't expect you to answer my question. It was more rhetorical than anything. Hopefully it helped you exhale..
Yawn... When are you going to answer my questions.
As for the money for a ring, you said it was a small amount of money BASED ON WHAT OTHER MEN SPEND FOR RINGS. That's a terribly flawed way to value something a man who is proposing to you gives. That was the only point.
This is your opinion again, who said Legacy's opinion was worth more than the effort it took him to peck it out. Everybody's got an opinion.
PS - Don't worry about me.. I'm all good.
I'm not worried about you, I've got better things to do than that. I just asked you a few questions about how you conduct your own personal life with your SO to support all of your rants and opinions about what "you" think others ought to be doing in their own intimate lives. I was hoping you could shed some light based on your own example but as usual you refused to answer. Yet you're full of rants and opinions but you can't bring in your own real life examples to support your opinions. Next....
Real life personal examples to share -1
BS + infinity and beyond.