Does "Nice Guy" = sexually inexperienced?

[devineone]

Therefore, y'all can't make, infer or agree with a broad statement that woman are less superficial either since there's an indeterminable amount of men & women who are superficial versus qualitative.

Who was it that brought up the "superficial argument' in the first place.  You did!!  Now you're trying to make it seem as though women are up in here being superficial when you're the one who introduced this word into this topic thread. See how YOU are?  We were talking about something else and you came in here throwing off that women are being 'superficial' because they want to have a quality sex life with their SO.

[Ndgo]

Oh dear... the shoe must have fit! You surely put it on, walking all around in it now... stomping BACK into the thread like that.... lololol.... By the way, who was trying to be funny? I meant was I said about those types of guys.

Hmmmm....now that you've opened up the door... what WAS your relationship with your mother like? C'mon now...do tell! 

[Legacy]

Therefore, y'all can't make, infer or agree with a broad statement that woman are less superficial either since there's an indeterminable amount of men & women who are superficial versus qualitative.

Who was it that brought up the "superficial argument' in the first place.  You did!!  Now you're trying to make it seem as though women are up in here being superficial when you're the one who introduced this word into this topic thread. See how YOU are?  We were talking about something else and you came in here throwing off that women are being 'superficial' because they want to have a quality sex life with their SO.

Nah, you missing the boat.. I'm brought the angle from the obesity thread  into this thread. Y'all were saying in that thread that men are MORE superficial & women are less forgiving of looks. I explained that when their needs are greater, they might be but not because women are less superficial by default.

Oh dear... the shoe must have fit! You surely put it on, walking all around in it now... stomping BACK into the thread like that.... lololol.... By the way, who was trying to be funny? I meant was I said about those types of guys.

Hmmmm....now that you've opened up the door... what WAS your relationship with your mother like? C'mon now...do tell! 

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[devineone]

Nah, you missing the boat.. I'm brought the angle from the obesity thread  into this thread. Y'all were saying in that thread that men are MORE superficial & women are less forgiving of looks. I explained that when their needs are greater, they might be but not because women are less superficial by default.

aka the "sex is more important than character, inner beauty, intelligence", "females are just as superficial as men", and "y it's usually an excuse to dog out men when I get dogged out because the real issue is my criteria for selecting men" post.

This quote says that women are 'superficial for wanting quality sex with their SO and it didn't have anything to do with that obesity thread.  You were the one who first brought up the "superficial" word in this topic thread.  This led me to pull up your posts from the obesity thread to show how you were in fact superficial in your unwillingness to choose  other sterling qualities in a woman over looks.  So you have no room to call women superficial in here without being a hypocrite which you are.

How is wanting quality sex with your SO superficial?  You seem to think that having a satisfactory sex life with your SO is 'superficial' and if the guy has problems that causes unresolved sexual incompatibility, it should be overlooked because the guy is a NG (by your definifion of NG's).

[devineone]

Well, Legacy, I'm old-fashioned and I was raised to believe that a man's job is to provide for and protect his family..

CB you aren't old fashioned.  What makes you think your ideals are out of step just because how you think isn't popular with what these guys are doing now?  You sound like the true, "Bower", the nice guy with the edge who satisfies his lady in ALL the areas and you understand the importance of having a healthy relationship with your SO.  You realize that this means more than being a provider of material things and just being " a nice guy'. It also encompasses being her 'love provider too.   Nita is very blessed.   She "aint got to look any further." 

[devineone]

Me? I don't begrudge women for seeking out or sleeping with men that they find attractive and are good in bed..Mainly because being good in bed is skill that any man can acquire..Just like fishing: Find out what a woman wants sexually then give it to her. If you can't or won't--find another woman. Not exactly rocket science...

LOL, CB I had to quote you again.   One of my guy friends just stopped by to pick me up for dinner and I showed him this thread topic and asked his opinion.  He was laughing and said that his woman doesn't have to worry about his skilz (his word). He said that he handles his bizness and he knows how to more than keep her satisfied.  He said that guys who are whining about how women should put up with sorry azz sex are the ones with the problem and if he were a woman he'd run a mile from that.
LOL This is coming from a guy.  Gotta run dinner at 7.

[Legacy]

This quote says that women are 'superficial for wanting quality sex with their SO and it didn't have anything to do with that obesity thread.  You were the one who first brought up the "superficial" word in this topic thread.  This led me to pull up your posts from the obesity thread to show how you were in fact superficial in your unwillingness to choose  other sterling qualities in a woman over looks.  So you have no room to call women superficial in here without being a hypocrite which you are.

How is wanting quality sex with your SO superficial?  You seem to think that having a satisfactory sex life with your SO is 'superficial' and if the guy has problems that causes unresolved sexual incompatibility, it should be overlooked because the guy is a NG (by your definifion of NG's).

Nice work gumshoe... well, not really..

The fact is I made the point to contrast the nonsense y'all were spouting in a previous thread. Just because I didn't explicit say it in that post makes it no less true.

And let me give you some advice. Stop trying to so hard. You're proving yourself to be a groupie of sorts. Just realize you can't win & things will become much easier for you.

[devineone]

And let me give you some advice. Stop trying to so hard. You're proving yourself to be a groupie of sorts. Just realize you can't win & things will become much easier for you.

Let me give you some advice.  Take your own.  This is "rich" coming from the guy who clowns on everybody in the forum who attempts to communicate with him.  Stop telling them what to think, how to act, what to remember, what not to remember, who talks to people any type of way.  You stop acting like that and then you might gain some respect and people will listen to what you say and that will make you come across more as the educated nice guy you like to think you are rather than how you really come across.  Ok gumshoe?

[Legacy]

Me? I don't begrudge women for seeking out or sleeping with men that they find attractive and are good in bed..Mainly because being good in bed is skill that any man can acquire..Just like fishing: Find out what a woman wants sexually then give it to her. If you can't or won't--find another woman. Not exactly rocket science...

LOL, CB I had to quote you again.   One of my guy friends just stopped by to pick me up for dinner and I showed him this thread topic and asked his opinion.  He was laughing and said that his woman doesn't have to worry about his skilz (his word). He said that he handles his bizness and he knows how to more than keep her satisfied.  He said that guys who are whining about how women should put up with sorry azz sex are the ones with the problem and if he were a woman he'd run a mile from that.
LOL This is coming from a guy.  Gotta run dinner at 7.

I agree with him. And I also agree that men shouldn't have to put up with obese, unattractive, or bad attitude having women. The difference is I never argued that women are less superficial than men.

That's what Y'ALL was arguing.. So keep running in circles trying to prove something that's pretty much irrelevant. I'll be skippin thru that hot garbage smilin like this:

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BAWAHAHAHA!

And let me give you some advice. Stop trying to so hard. You're proving yourself to be a groupie of sorts. Just realize you can't win & things will become much easier for you.

Let me give you some advice.  Take your own.  This is "rich" coming from the guy who clowns on everybody in the forum who attempts to communicate with him.  Stop telling them what to think, how to act, what to remember, what not to remember, who talks to people any type of way.  You stop acting like that and then you might gain some respect and people will listen to what you say and that will make you come across more as the educated nice guy you like to think you are rather than how you really come across.  Ok gumshoe?

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[devineone]

And let me give you some advice. Stop trying to so hard. You're proving yourself to be a groupie of sorts. Just realize you can't win & things will become much easier for you.

Still waiting on you to take your own advice that you dished out to me.   Funny how those who like to give it, don't even take it in themselves.  If you don't like this topic thread then stay out of it.  Simple as that.  You don't have to post in here to 'prove anything'.  It's not like you're adding anything 'constructive'anyway.  You just came up in here to sling insults and antagonize (as usual).  The only guy who has said something worthy on this topic so far anyway is CB.

[Legacy]

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[devineone]

The difference is I never argued that women are less superficial than men.
That's what Y'ALL was arguing..

Can you show me in this topic thread where "Y'ALL" were arguing  about men and women being superficial as regards to the topic thread "Does Nice guy= sexually inexperienced?"
What is the purpose for you continuing to bring up 'superficial"?
What does superficial have to do with this topic thread?
What does "superficial" have to do with women wanting a satisfying sexual relationship with their SO?

I'll be skippin thru that

To use your own expression:
"OH SWEET JESUS.. DO YOU PROMISE?"
”Begging shrek cat”

[devineone]

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LOL Real mature Legacy.  The college educated computer IT supposedly 'nice guy" who resorts to insults and pictures when he has nothing constructive to say.   What does that say about you?  I don't need to post a picture.  It's already plain to see

[Legacy]

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[devineone]

"You don't have to be an ego-inflated, arrogant jerk. You just have to LIKE yourself. You have to know what you want out of life, and go after it. Only then will you be attractive to the kind of woman with whom a long-term relationship is possible. " Quite simple, isn't it?

Ndgo I agree.  My grandmother used to have a saying, "A hit dog will hollar'.  I never understood it until later. The "dog" who is hollaring the loudest is the one who got hit by the "shoe" and it fit.

That's what my guy friend said when he saw this thread the other day.  He wasn't even trying to say that women should be with men who can't give them what they want in a relationship.  He also said that sex should be the easiest thing to want to give.  That's the icing on the cake in a relationship.  He said it shouldn't be the bone of contention.  Relationships take enough work as it is, and sex should be the one place where people find solace, and passion with their SO.   If that isn't working on top of other issues people have to contend with then that relationship will have problems unless the people have an understanding.  He said there are a lot of immature little guys running around masquerading as men and they don't know jack about relating to women on a mature adult level.  He said to leave those 'little boys' alone.