Does "Nice Guy" = sexually inexperienced?

[MsHeartBeat]

Bottom line, women (just like men), want a nice stable romantic guy that she trusts implicitly and who takes care of business in the streets and a thug lovin' give it to me baby freak daddy  in the bedroom.  Nice guys ain't knowin how to flip it slap it and smack it down and talk shyt in bed.  They don't think its "nice" to do that kind of thing to women. 

And they are so afraid of everything. Sometimes I just wanna walk up to them showing my cleavage and say "BOO!" to see how far they jump in shock!

Nice guys over rate themselves so they can feel superior to other men that have all the women.  WHATEVER!

I wrote two articles on this subject:

(1) Why Nice Guys Suck and Women Don't Want You!

(2) Why Men Don't Get Laid - The Top 5 Reasons!

[devineone]

Bottom line, women (just like men), want a nice stable romantic guy that she trusts implicitly and who takes care of business in the streets and a thug lovin' give it to me baby freak daddy  in the bedroom.  

Well put Ms. HB!  Exactly and the ones up in here defending poor sex skills and expecting women to put up with that are probably the ones who lack the mojo to please a woman so they try to flip the script and make it seem that the woman is bad for wanting a man who can handle his bizness in the bedroom...Uh that would be you Legacy. 

Nice guy to me implies the most important qualities of a good partner & the basis for a solid relationship. He's probably respectful, well-mannered, even-tempered, & good natured. However, since he can't bang you like a pornstar, you'll pass.

Why does Legacy's 'nice guy' sounds like the description of the 4 legged canine variety? "Well mannered, even tempered & good natured".  Fetch, throw, roll over, catch... Good dog.  See spot run.   "See spot get kicked to the curb.     According to Leg, so what if the nice guy doesn't have the sexual mojo happenin, he's got all of those other qualities and that is supposed to suffice. NOT!! NEXT!

Nice guys ain't knowin how to flip it slap it and smack it down and talk shyt in bed.  They don't think its "nice" to do that kind of thing to women.

I think that 'nice guys' just don't know HOW to put it down so they try to cover it up and make excuses and say that they are just too 'nice'.    How can you be too 'nice' to throw down in the boudoir and satisfy your woman?

[devineone]

Great Video by Tmot on Youtube about pleasing your mate.
"Black People: Screw or Make Love - Choose"

[blkpanther]

I am blkpanther, a newbie introducing myself to the board. Glad to be aboard and looking forward to stimulating and thought provoking discussions about relationships and issues regarding the black community. Used to post on AHB years ago...
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I am shocked by what I am reading regarding nice guys. There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. Maybe it is women's stereotypes about nice guys that is the problem. Nice guys are deprived of even so called "good women" because they believe these IGNORANT stereotypes about nice guys/good men that radiates throughout this culture. Ignorant stereo types such as "Nice guys aren't good in bed" Most nice guys I know have NO complaints from their women and these are decent,  dependable, well educated, non thugged out, honest brothas! These are the guys that will treat women like queens, yet get overlooked because of foolishness. It's funny how these nice guys become very attractive to women once these women have reached age 35 - 40+ and they have 5 babies by 7 different men, so they look for the nice dependable, stable nice guy to wife them up after years of rejection in favor of bad boys and thugs.

You have many would be nice decent and respectable black men that would go on to make excellent husbands and fathers. I notice many women seem to only want nice guys when they have been dogged out by thugs for years. The nice guy is more likely to settle down with you and want to be in a committed lasting relationship. Bad boys just want to screw you and your best friend and treat you like crap. It is bad choices and childish thinking like this about nice guys and preference to bad boys that keeps the cycle of dysfunction going. If women keep making the same jacked up choices in men, you will keep having complaints when you are abandoned or abused. Nice guys and good men do not abandon their women and children. Bad boys , players, and hoodlums do. What happens when your son looks to the man you have chosen to be his role model. Do you want the bad boy to be a role model for your son. Do you really want your daughters growing up saying they want a bad-boy and your sons growing up saying they want to be one? Better men and women make better choices. Not just who you THINK is better in bed. I am sure that strippers in booty shaking clubs and prostitutes on the corner are BY FAR,  better in bed than the nice decent loyal black woman, but what fool will even go to BED with a stripper/prostitute let ALONE wife her up?   Women keep choosing to mate and procreate with bad boys, players, and thugs and these are the guys that leave you and your children, which creates so many single mother raised children.  Ponder this for a sec women, who would you rather father your children and be an example for them to follow the nice guy or the bad boy? Is Barack Obama a nice guy or a bad boy? Who has a better chance of raising the next Barack Obama or Michelle Obama, the nice guy or the bad boy?  Who do you think would make a better husband, nice guy or bad boy? No wonder so many of our black sons want to be thugs, rappers, dope salesmen, criminals, bad boys and athletes! This is what black women RUN to! Unlearned men tend to gravitate to what kind of men the women of their area and demographic prefer. If sistas suddenly were interested in nice decent respectable guys, and rejected bad boys en mass then you would see a great change in the men. They would HAVE to step their game up or resign themselves to Mr. Hand Wackoff... Women are the choosers of whom they give sex to or to have relationships with. All men can do is approach, but ultimately women are the choosers, and it's high time that women start choosing a better caliber of black men than the bad boys. Damn, people we have the most intelligent president in office, A Black man, A Nice guy, running our country. When are black women in america going to start making better choices in men so we can have top quality families raising the next generation into greatness. It starts with the women making better choices in men and choosing quality men.  Nice Boys grow up to become GOOD MEN. Bad boys, grow up into criminals, players and thugs and DYSFUNCTIONAL BAD MEN.