Also, too many young men think that their woman is a reflection of them somehow, which is why they want to have one that looks a certain way. Their goal is to impress other men with how their woman looks, not by what kind of woman she is or what kind of man HE is.
Yup I see this happen A LOT with guys who will pass by girls who are perfectly fine but they want to go for a 'certain look'. Meanwhile they are maybe a 5 or 6 themselves but going for 8's and 10's. LOL