I mean you GOT TO to know if he's in the same sexual bounds you are, like, what's his favorite thing (and in detail), what kind of people he like hangin with, what kind of people he LOVE hangin with, what makes his mind feel real good (tight movies, books...) you know, that kindof thing and then CLEARLY understanding you can re-iterate you heard what he said and then tie it into what you go for....
I mean, know if he LIKES or LOVES stylish, professional women or if he goes for the homely type....and just playing with ya mind.
I'm about staying in my zone, that zone, where I'm happy, feeling sexy...etc. If he can't do that, which I found out through the questions I asked...then. NEXT!
I mean...that's how I go. Cuz if you STILL chasin men, I believe you doin it with ya feelings hurt tryin to get his affection til he come around.
These are good points. I also say watch what he does because what he 'does' resonates far more than what he 'says he does'.