If any guy can all say that he has NEVER, NOT ONE TIME done any of the 15 items on this list, he can talk about women making better choices. Other than that, shut up because you are the problem. You are the reason black women have broken hearts, hurt feelings and baggage.
Category: Coop’s Corner
DRB black males love to play mind games with and hurt women, and have no qualms about it. Making you feel off center and unstable is their goal. The less confident you feel, the more likely you are to give him what he wants.
Inspired by the 1972 piece Children Learn What They Live by Dorothy Law Nolte, blogger Deborrah Cooper pens a guide for African American parents on how to raise black children with dignity, pride and high self esteem.
A 225 lb father was arrested and charged with child abuse for beating his two adolescent daughters with a cable cord. The fact that so many black men and women were applauding him for “good parenting” shows a sickness in the minds of black people that needs immediate treatment.
DBR black men are controlling, violent and manipulative. It’s tough to leave a relationship if they aren’t ready to let you go. Cut the b.s. off at the pass. As soon as you see even ONE of these red flags, be out like Forrest Gump!
Some of you are confused about how to recognize one of these tit sucking infant-men who are still hanging onto Momma’s skirt tail. You’ve seen them in your own family and on-line… the guys who whine about how black women need to support nurture care for love listen to and guide them. All they do is come at you with their hand out and their neediness front and center. Big ass babies!
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How can you tell when a black man is lying? His lips are moving that’s how! Smart sistahs know better than to trust anything that comes out of a DBR black man’s mouth, especially if he prefaces it with “I swear it’s true!” or “I don’t know why you don’t believe me!” or “Baby I’m telling you, I ain’t lying!”
Black male socialization teaches them to deny responsibility for anything if a black woman is involved! Blame shifting onto black women is a favorite pastime of suckas. Why can’t black men man up and take responsibility for their behavior and choices? Why can’t black men stop whining like spoiled brats?
his series is designed to raise awareness and speak clearly and honestly about the behaviors that are decimating the black community and laying waste to our proud heritage. These negative, damaging behaviors must be stopped… these attitudes must be changed.