Dating and relationship articles by advice columnist and author Deborrah Cooper
Some of you are confused about how to recognize one of these tit sucking infant-men who are still hanging onto Momma’s skirt tail. You’ve seen them in your own family and on-line… the guys who whine about how black women need to support nurture care for love listen to and guide them. All they do is come at you with their hand out and their neediness front and center. Big ass babies!
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How can you tell when a black man is lying? His lips are moving that’s how! Smart sistahs know better than to trust anything that comes out of a DBR black man’s mouth, especially if he prefaces it with “I swear it’s true!” or “I don’t know why you don’t believe me!” or “Baby I’m telling you, I ain’t lying!”
Black male socialization teaches them to deny responsibility for anything if a black woman is involved! Blame shifting onto black women is a favorite pastime of suckas. Why can’t black men man up and take responsibility for their behavior and choices? Why can’t black men stop whining like spoiled brats?
his series is designed to raise awareness and speak clearly and honestly about the behaviors that are decimating the black community and laying waste to our proud heritage. These negative, damaging behaviors must be stopped… these attitudes must be changed.
Smart women run their relationships like a business. Strict requirements, which could include education and suitability for the “corporate culture” of her family are established. A hiring agreement so that everyone knows the expectations and deliverables of the position is prepared. And each applicant who believes he is a qualified candidate must be “interviewed” to prove he is the best candidate for the job of her CEO.